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Thursday, March 3, 2016

POSITIVE OUTLOOK AS A WAY OF LIFE



We always look our life in negative ways. We easily give up if there are difficulties we can’t handle. We felt hopeless for the first sign of trouble. The burden of the problem makes us helpless.  We became weak, losing our strength and without any idea how to put the mind at ease. There’s too much trouble in our thoughts. It became a hindrance to our action. We have doubts of our ability to handle whatever is bothering us. 

Our negative perception of life slows down our progress stagnated the chances of living happy and satisfied. We closed our eyes to see the challenge ahead. Our weakness hampered our growth.

A mental states that is positively build has the ability to change failure to success. It gives him the opportunity to motivate himself to think openly. To think positive makes life challenging and promising. He is optimistic to improve his way of life without feeling discourage. It boosts his self-esteem to higher degree. 

His psychological and mental capacity is not easily affected by any bout of emotional disturbance. He can readily restraint any ill-feeling inside his mind. He can handle stress to lowest level without affecting his mental well-being. If there is difficult situation that needs attention, he can resolve it without too much of a problem.

Normal positive action has high degree of merits. It trained the mind to convert negative thought into positive one. To think positive in excess of what is expected of him has disadvantage. He becomes over-confident and has high level of ego expecting too much of himself even if he can’t exceed his limit.

Over-dependent of his positive aspects in life is no longer productive. Only a reasonable ways can bring good result and will motivate himself into better person. His mental ability in handling situational problem was strong enough that he can’t easily affected by many challenges in life.  A negative thought process lowered self-esteem. There is mental weakness to uplift his spirit to do something in his favor rather than making a sickness to himself.

A good mental habit prevents frustration, despair and discouragement. It releases the burden in his mind to be more open to changes. He decided judiciously. He corrected his shortcomings and put his positive attitude into higher ground. 

He has complete control of his life. He build up confidence inside and ready to face any difficulties that lies ahead. He discouraged fears to develop because of his belief and unquestionable faith that everything can put into the right perspective. 

Most men acting positive were happy and contented. It gives them peace from mental torture. They conditioned their mind to look for ways to achieve whatever dream they wanted to accomplish. They set up a plan and then give focus to achieve it.

He gives many thoughts in his every action. He lengthened his perception first before he leap. Enough energy is needed to be able to work hard. Success is not offered in silver platter. It should be earned by sweats, hard work and patience.

 Any doubts for failure can be managed well and the power of concentration is high to hit the target. He can’t easily be distracted by other things because his interest was focused in certain objectives. He can initiate necessary action fast and easy. To act responsibly will not drive his mind away from his point of interest instead it motivates him to work hard and do more.

Positive attitude becomes a passion of pursuing certain objective no matter what the odds may be and it does not stop him to continue his intention. It is his hunger to accomplish something of value. His determination was strong as ever. He doesn’t stop even experiencing his first failure. It does not discourage him of thinking to back out but instead it gives him more inspiration to work harder until he is satisfied.

To have positive outlook in life will always win. There’s no giving up even in slight pressure. It energizes his body and mind working together for common purpose, to win from the battle of nerves.

THE BAD SIDE OF BEING POSSESSIVE




To possess is getting something you liked. You wanted to own it with a price or it heartily given to you from someone. There’s certain happiness inside you, a satisfaction that has no bound.

But to become possessive is another thing. It entails limitation within you. You can’t just get it without hurting someone. It is dangerous kind of emotion that you can’t control. You desire is too much to handle. You wanted to own it because of overwhelming fear that it will lost from your anytime which you can’t allow. It begins with doubts about the honesty of your husband. 

You wanted to control his movement because you don’t trust him. You wanted to know every movement he make - his whereabouts and clipped his decisions if it doesn’t suit you. Your mental strain kept on haunting your day and night. Sometimes your husband lost its temper of your too much meddling in his own affairs. But you kept on insisting because you wanted to control him completely no matter what happens but inside your heart you are not ready to bear the consequence of your action.

You need to understand that your husband is human, a person and not a possession He has its own personal space like you. He has his own desire to decide for himself.

If you reasonably loved him then set your personal boundary. This is the only way to build strong relationship with your husband. Don’t focus on the future that your husband will find another you someday. You need to understand that you are the one creating your destiny. You can’t alter what’s store in the future. What you can do is only how to manage certain circumstances that ill you. You can’t hold the future into your hands.

Even how your husband loves you, he has his limitation and patience of your continued meddling. If his patience run out then you will find yourself in hot water. Acting it possessively will not give good result instead it will be a threat to your relationship. Once misunderstanding sets in, trouble begins. If you will not give up, the more he will not give in.

Understanding spiced with trust is the key for long lasting relationship. If you have to start learning how to trust, don’t intervene in whatever decision or action your husband want to take. You only need is to support him. If you will not pamper your relationship, the integrity of your partnership with him will be lost. Instead make it to prosper and blossom for your marriage to last for long to old age. Limit your intervention then you will find peace within yourself.

Maintain your good relationship to the maximum. Control your bad thoughts. Make it a point to have enough self-control. Your support is a he need. Don’t pamper your possessiveness. It doesn’t bring your goodness. It can only scare away a good relationship you wanted to build. Don’t let loose in your hands. It will be too late to recover if something will be lost, his feeling in you.

The secret of developing long lasting relationship is a give-and-take communication, putting intimacy above all things. If there is trust, honesty and understanding, there’s no way for a disagreement to become a serious trouble. If you all both agreed in many things, respecting each other view, position and decision, any little misunderstanding can be resolve with dispatch without letting it to go out in your hands.

Possessiveness has disastrous effect to a relationship. Focus your mind of developing it more but not by destroying it blindly. It’s no use wanting it and then letting it go because of an emotional disturbance that can’t be controlled.