He
wanted to be alone. He doesn’t want responsibility. He was happy in his present
state. He had different belief how to live. Being alone was enough. He doesn’t
want to care for others. He only cared for himself. He did not even plan to
raise a family. Whatever his purpose of getting away from the society where he
belong was his choice. The choice that is contrary to other belief that a man
can't live alone without someone at his side. He had different views.
Commitment
is one of the reasons why some people don't want to make a wise decision. They
are afraid that they cannot raise a family properly. They are worried of total
failure thinking that they cannot even support their own. The negative
perception restrained them to decide what is best for them believing that they
will be blame if they cannot response effectively to the expectation of others
in his capacity to support his own family.
There
are others who don't want to get involve because he is afraid to face any
challenge. He has no interest. He just wanted to be an easy-go-lucky man
without direction, ambition and plan for his future. He relied only in the
present. He doesn’t want for a change. This is the reason why he cannot
increase his level of income because he doesn’t want try to change his
direction.
He just relied in his family for his need even if he already old
enough to find a life of his own. That's the problem of some of us, we always
dependent to other person for support. This attitude is one of the hindrances
to live a life full of hope, ambition and satisfaction.
The
problem is how he manages when he aged? Can he still able to support his own?
How he can manage when he became very old? Who will take care of him? If his
life expire in due time then who will remember him? Time flies so fast.
It
is better if he change now in order to grow. There is still time to decide to
have someone he can turn to. He should focus only in one direction to be a
family man. He should not afraid to face the test along the way. He has to show
his effort and his worth. He should make his life to become worthwhile. We
believe it is not too late for a change.
