Showing posts with label courage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label courage. Show all posts

Thursday, March 3, 2016

CONFIDENT-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR



A confident man is not afraid to take responsibility even how hard it was because of inner strength he developed to be able to face the challenge. He was the kind of people that is strong-willed, efficient and hardworking. There was always risk in making decision. There is decision that ends in failure because no one knows what will happen ahead. But it did not deter him to make decision he believed the right one and willing to do more if necessary for the benefit of one or the many. 

He was not easily discouraged of failure, the more he work hard in his belief that everything will be put into the right place. A father made almost all decision at home even the tiniest details of family life including the critical decision that warrants his attention. The foundation of his life was about decision-making. This was the only way for him to survive.

He has business-like quality. He can run the business with ease and confident. He knows which direction his business should be and how he can improve it to be profitable. Whatever task is given him, he always sees that it is done right, properly, completely and on time. He will not let certain job left hanging. It is not his kind. He was always responsible in his function. If it takes a certain task many hours to comply, he will do so without any regret. It was his nature to finish the job even how hard it will be.

If he is around friends, he has fresh ideas to share with them especially if they have specific activity to pursue. He maintained good relationship to anyone. He was not sensitive of his feeling. He listened and understood. Any constructive criticism is a challenge to him to improve his work. If someone crosses his path with misunderstanding not of his own making, he avoided confrontation. He will not add fire to the situation. He always hope that disagreement is settled in proper and civilized way.

He was not panicky if there is problem along the line. He remained calm with highest level of confidence and hopeful he can find ways to manage any hindrances and put a stop to the effect it cause in working environment. He has highest points of performance, doing it right, fast and on schedule. He doesn’t want to waste time because of inefficiency. Performance below the level of acceptance is costly. Spending time and effort is worthless without positive result.

The calmness of his behavior towards treating a new task assigned to him, give him too much confidence that he can handle it well and striving that it can be done right, fast and on time. He was confident that he can make rational and wise decision if problem arises in handling the new task. He was striving for excellence giving no room for failure. His innovative ideas made his job easier to handle.

He was born leader. If given the chance to lead a group of people, he can lead them even during crucial moment of their lives. He did not feel afraid of responsibility instead it challenge him to make the best of it. He was true to himself without pretending to be good. Even during the time of his difficulties, he will not seek help from other people. He just kept it to himself because of his belief and great confidence that he can find ways to brace the impact of his burden.

He give more time in the performance of his work, gathering many new ideas important in his planning and decision-making if the need arises rather than putting more time with his family. 

If it happens that you are under him, you have to focus your attention to your work as he always expects result and hard work. He was very strict about task deadline. If overtime is necessary to submit the report on schedule you have to do it fast. You have to follow and toe the line. You are always reminded to obey whatever he asked you to do especially the necessity of completing your work to be able catch up the deadline.

Friday, January 30, 2009

WHEN OUR TIME IS UP

All of us are afraid to die. There are no sane people want to have a trip to other dimension. It's painful to know that our life will end. No one lives forever. This was the hardest part of our lives. But what is death, anyway? Death is a cessation of life when our heart beats no more, when our mind shut off completely, when our body give up to become dust. Death can hit us anywhere we go, on the street, in our home, in some places, in an unfortunate accident, and even in our sleep. It depends on what manner death will come to us. When our time is up, we only leave memories, our past and present, nothing more and nothing less. We cannot even say goodbye. Those left behind are only to remember us everyday, every year or forgotten us completely as their world is not our world anymore. What was left from memories were the pictures with the children and grandchildren. They will remember us every year by visiting us to our place of rest.

But how about those who knew he has a terminal disease as his days were numbered, how can he manage the painful truth that death is inevitable and will come sooner or later. It becomes a torturer into his mind, losing hope for a chance to recovery.

Some of them have enough courage to face death. In his darkest hour, he got the opportunity to grow spiritually. Instead of turning his days with worry, he makes it to be worthwhile. His passing day was a gift. He used it wisely trying to be happy.


He experienced fear before the moment of death. But he managed it well. He give the remaining days of their life with a purpose. As the time is nearer, intimate relationship grows more. It creates a special closeness to go deeper. He feels he was being cared more than ever before. Every passing hours, become the time of expecting when....

In his deathbed, panic creep him. He used his courage and strength to focus in different direction believing that he is only making a trip to other place hoping to be back in some other time even if it is not.