SUPPORTIVE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Every man has its own kind of behavior as he grow. It can evolve into something different due to influence he got from outside environment, from his peer groups and the modern way of living that forced him to adapt to changing times. The behavior may be good or bad depending on the degree of its effect to the individual how he nourish it to become one. If the influence is quite bad then he becomes a menace to the society and a threat to peaceful community. 

A delinquent child will continue to be problematic if he insisted in changing his direction. It is always the responsibility of the parents to mold their children into a good citizen full of good moral values.

A supportive type of behavior has its own unique quality, his strength and weakness. He was people-oriented due to his ability to give encouragement for the helpless, care about their difficulties and willing to give support to those in need. No need for him to be asked, he will do it because it was his nature. If they got problem, he is willing to listen, give advice and embrace them with comforting hug.

He always developed good relationship with those around him. He doesn’t want to enter into disagreement with anyone. He will do his best that such relationship is strong and has solid structure. He pleased those that need his counsel and not to fail them. He kept his silence to notice individual lapses.

  

Even if he was not in the mood, he will join with the tide interacting conversation to anybody or in a group discussing something of importance or has no importance at all. His responsiveness to people’s needs put them to liked him.

He supported people’s initiated activities. He participated when asked even if it does not interest him. He consented to join them but disinterested.

If he has emotional distress with other people, he suppressed the feeling before it worsens and kept his frustration under control. If he is angry, he just kept it to himself and always maintains a non-combative posture.

He was a follower. He was cooperative whatever function id assigned to him by his superior. He worked as long as he is supervised. He will obey without question what is required of him. If there is a necessity for him to serve, he is willing to do so. It was his desire to respond to the needs of other people even against his will.

It was his nature to give encouragement to those that have low self-esteem even if he knew he was also one of them too. He protected other people’s lapses and weakness. If it is necessary to see to protect their interest from unpleasant and damaging information, he will gladly make it so.

As a follower, he was not good in planning and decision-making for the benefit of the company or any other instances. He lacked the initiative to improve himself and makes his own image. He was only good in following orders. He took action for the execution of instruction under the leadership of his superior.

 It is hard to determine what’s in his mind. His though process was vague and unfathomable. His outside appearance does not speak truly what’s in his heart. He always consent and willing. It was his desire to please everybody and make them happy. He has no backbone of his own. He relied other people’s initiative and leadership.

Self-improvement may be slow for him because of his dependency with others. He supported others need but failed to support himself to be a better person.

AGGRESSIVE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

There were people that are weak and easily give up if they are burdened with a problem they can’t handle. They were helpless to face the storm. Their fear put them in a difficult position to find relief of their helplessness. 

An aggressive type of behavior has different story. Failure is his challenge. Success was his greatest achievement. He was proud of his accomplishments. Aggressiveness was the focal point of his behavior. He pushed his desire above his limit. He always think big. Doubts did not deter him to do what is necessary. His strength was unlimited. His perception was quite wide. His determination was without question. He was willing to sacrifice everything for one purpose – success.

He worked harder to attain his objective. He don’t mind extending many hours to work sacrificing his time of rest. His desire kept burning. The fire to get success was high in his mind.

The intensity of his desire revitalized his energy. It kept him strong chasing his lucky day. He had total control of his action. If he fail, the more he is determine to try the second time. Challenge is where his heart is.

Once established in one position of his career, he was pursuing the next step of his career. His ambition did not stop. He wanted to get the higher level with greater force of intention. It bored him to remain in one position. He desired to upgrade himself to a more challenging role.

He will dominate the atmosphere in any conversation. As he spoke, they became attentive and had interest in hearing his voice. He can easily attract attention with the voice that command authority. The words he spoken touched their heart as if they were mesmerize by the wighty substance of his words and the voice clearly audible to one’s ear.

He can easily got along with other people. He had that power to adapt to new environment and be known. Being lively can get him many friends around. He used his expertise in winning people’s emotion and feelings. He gives inspiration to go along with anyone, making new friendship is the nicest thing to do.

He was very independent in any given situation. He did not rely on anyone’s assistance. He supported himself and lived with his own. His strength made it possible for him to work alone in longer period of time to be able to meet his deadline. His determination ruled his life. To get the success he desired put his mind occupied and push beyond his limit.

He acted fast in making decision with greater accuracy. If he decide, he will not wait too long to act. It was his belief that it can be done. If he failed, he looked for a second chance. He won’t give up. The more he is very determined to make it possible.

What he was lacking is that he doesn’t have enough patience. Sometimes he acted suicidal in his decision. His carelessness put him in a difficult situation to make an extra effort to correct the mistakes. Patience made him bored without any idea that patience can save his life, work and his dream. Patience give him opportunity to correct whatever minr slip he did in his decision making.

With aggressive behavior, there were employees under his supervision were not happy working with him. He was forceful in meeting deadlines. He wanted result in short period of time. He expect better quality of their work. It became a stressful environment for employees to do their work fast without letting little space for themselves. There was too much pressure in the working environment.

He did not give time for others to speak regarding issues and concerns affecting the business operation. He wanted to lead and speak for themselves. He did the talking, they were following whatever he said. He imposed leadership as if he is the only one who knows everything. He showed too much ego sometimes. His self-esteem was higher and more concrete. He craved for recognition from his ability to excel. He wanted to be praised of his accomplishment. He wanted to be recognized of being aggressive and do things his own way.