Thursday, March 3, 2016

SUPPORTIVE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR



Every man has its own kind of behavior as he grow. It can evolve into something different due to influence he got from outside environment, from his peer groups and the modern way of living that forced him to adapt to changing times. The behavior may be good or bad depending on the degree of its effect to the individual how he nourish it to become one. If the influence is quite bad then he becomes a menace to the society and a threat to peaceful community. 

A delinquent child will continue to be problematic if he insisted in changing his direction. It is always the responsibility of the parents to mold their children into a good citizen full of good moral values.

A supportive type of behavior has its own unique quality, his strength and weakness. He was people-oriented due to his ability to give encouragement for the helpless, care about their difficulties and willing to give support to those in need. No need for him to be asked, he will do it because it was his nature. If they got problem, he is willing to listen, give advice and embrace them with comforting hug.



He always developed good relationship with those around him. He doesn’t want to enter into disagreement with anyone. He will do his best that such relationship is strong and has solid structure. He pleased those that need his counsel and not to fail them. He kept his silence to notice individual lapses.
  
Even if he was not in the mood, he will join with the tide interacting conversation to anybody or in a group discussing something of importance or has no importance at all. His responsiveness to people’s needs put them to liked him.

He supported people’s initiated activities. He participated when asked even if it does not interest him. He consented to join them but disinterested.

If he has emotional distress with other people, he suppressed the feeling before it worsens and kept his frustration under control. If he is angry, he just kept it to himself and always maintains a non-combative posture.

He was a follower. He was cooperative whatever function id assigned to him by his superior. He worked as long as he is supervised. He will obey without question what is required of him. If there is a necessity for him to serve, he is willing to do so. It was his desire to respond to the needs of other people even against his will.

It was his nature to give encouragement to those that have low self-esteem even if he knew he was also one of them too. He protected other people’s lapses and weakness. If it is necessary to see to protect their interest from unpleasant and damaging information, he will gladly make it so.

As a follower, he was not good in planning and decision-making for the benefit of the company or any other instances. He lacked the initiative to improve himself and makes his own image. He was only good in following orders. He took action for the execution of instruction under the leadership of his superior.

 It is hard to determine what’s in his mind. His though process was vague and unfathomable. His outside appearance does not speak truly what’s in his heart. He always consent and willing. It was his desire to please everybody and make them happy. He has no backbone of his own. He relied other people’s initiative and leadership.

Self-improvement may be slow for him because of his dependency with others. He supported others need but failed to support himself to be a better person.

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