Every
man has its own kind of behavior as he grow. It can evolve into something
different due to influence he got from outside environment, from his peer
groups and the modern way of living that forced him to adapt to changing times.
The behavior may be good or bad depending on the degree of its effect to the
individual how he nourish it to become one. If the influence is quite bad then
he becomes a menace to the society and a threat to peaceful community.
A
delinquent child will continue to be problematic if he insisted in changing his
direction. It is always the responsibility of the parents to mold their
children into a good citizen full of good moral values.
A
supportive type of behavior has its own unique quality, his strength and
weakness. He was people-oriented due to his ability to give encouragement for
the helpless, care about their difficulties and willing to give support to
those in need. No need for him to be asked, he will do it because it was his
nature. If they got problem, he is willing to listen, give advice and embrace
them with comforting hug.
He
always developed good relationship with those around him. He doesn’t want to
enter into disagreement with anyone. He will do his best that such relationship
is strong and has solid structure. He pleased those that need his counsel and
not to fail them. He kept his silence to notice individual lapses.
Even
if he was not in the mood, he will join with the tide interacting conversation
to anybody or in a group discussing something of importance or has no
importance at all. His responsiveness to people’s needs put them to liked him.
He
supported people’s initiated activities. He participated when asked even if it
does not interest him. He consented to join them but disinterested.
If
he has emotional distress with other people, he suppressed the feeling before
it worsens and kept his frustration under control. If he is angry, he just kept
it to himself and always maintains a non-combative posture.
He
was a follower. He was cooperative whatever function id assigned to him by his
superior. He worked as long as he is supervised. He will obey without question
what is required of him. If there is a necessity for him to serve, he is
willing to do so. It was his desire to respond to the needs of other people
even against his will.
It
was his nature to give encouragement to those that have low self-esteem even if
he knew he was also one of them too. He protected other people’s lapses and
weakness. If it is necessary to see to protect their interest from unpleasant
and damaging information, he will gladly make it so.
As
a follower, he was not good in planning and decision-making for the benefit of
the company or any other instances. He lacked the initiative to improve himself
and makes his own image. He was only good in following orders. He took action
for the execution of instruction under the leadership of his superior.
It is
hard to determine what’s in his mind. His though process was vague and
unfathomable. His outside appearance does not speak truly what’s in his heart.
He always consent and willing. It was his desire to please everybody and make them
happy. He has no backbone of his own. He relied other people’s initiative and
leadership.
Self-improvement
may be slow for him because of his dependency with others. He supported others
need but failed to support himself to be a better person.
