OUR GREATEST CHALLENGE

We lived because of the choices we make, when we experience our own failure, when we embrace our own right values, choosing what is right and wrong. We have given the gift of choosing what kind of path we want to lead, what kind of life we have to follow. And along the way, there's so many challenge we have to take, to face the crisis and hurdle the hardship. It is great challenge to be strong, to stand alone and live.

We have the ability to weigh the option by rejecting or accepting an opportunity offered into our hands. We felt satisfied if we make the right choice. This will be our greatest accomplishment, a healthy and wholesome decision.

Any failure of our choice is costly. It may be deadly to our very lives. Many of us decided without knowing the outcome, without realizing the consequences of such action. We choose blindly until the disaster hit us hard then we realized that we choose the wrong one. Learning to choose wisely prepares us to a very rewarding future, improving our lives, avoiding the same mistakes twice.

We choose because we believed it is important to us. If we have to value time, then we have to accomplish something lasting. Know first where we are going to avoid ending somewhere. By spending the right values is one of the most useful moments in using time. This precious moment will be our inspiration to lead us to a life in the direction of our conscience.

No matter what strong is our choice, any failure will test our own kind of character and become our greatest challenge that we have to take. We have to cope to any tragic moment that come into us, head high, with greatest confidence that this crisis will last forever in its own time.

Sometimes, we can't make a choice if we already suffered in our own failure in the past. This experience will motivate us to make a better one.

The fulfillment of a good and exciting life will depend on how we develop our mind to a greatest advantage and dispensing fully our own potential to reach our dream of achieving something we are proud to do. Accomplishment can only be realize if we have the strength, dedication, intention and determination to do more, show more, achieve more pushing to the limit with good result. The way the mind acted is instrumental to the fulfillment of our own success. We live in a time of so many opportunities with the desire to grow.

Accepting challenge is a test of faith, courage and responsibility. Whatever the result at the end of it, it is our choice and no one is to blame. It is our own action then it is our own success or failure. The challenge is up to us. Take it or leave it. It depend us.

HOW TO HAVE AN EFFECTIVE ADVISE

We do experience a problem in seeking advise from friends or neighbors as we cannot decide on how to solve a certain situation.

Our neighbor told us what happened to him when he seek advise from one of his friends. He did not realized that such advise given to him brought more harm to him.

Relying too much to other people's advise is not a sure thing and risky. It is not advisable to give full confidence right away by relying this information. Give time to verify and check it over a hundred times weighing every side of it before committing a responsibility.

Sometimes, overconfidence leads to lost opportunities. That opportunities only knock once in a lifetime. Right decision should had been made.

Sometimes, listening to one's advise bring us bad luck. It is easy to give an advise but the effectiveness of such an advise is important either from your friend or close to you.

In coming into a conclusion by considering an advise should be carefully taken and given time to determine its value. If you are careless it may lead to painful consequences. This is the mistake some people experienced without knowing what will happen next.

The secret of giving an advise is not to give any to play safe. What you need is to guide him to his confusion in deciding the best option. Ask him but let himself decide. Whatever his decision will be at his own risk. All you have to do is to support him of his decision. Don't argue. Let him answer his own question and let him decide. Give some insight to enlighten him what to do but it should be his decision that will prevail. If he cannot give any, then don't try to advise him.

Giving advise is risky especially in deciding a delicate matter for a solution. If it fails your friend will be back at you going mad blaming you from head to foot. Don't let your friend dependent to you even how simple is the problem. Your help may backfire you. So be careful.

Although we understand the situation of your friend of his incapacity to decide his own. He was handicap in deciding. But there are problems that cannot be decided easily by other people. It is his problem, it should be his decision and its solution.

If he ask you for some advise, tell him honestly that you cannot decide the best for him. Don't assure him of anything because you are not experience enough in giving advise. Let him understand your situation. You can refer him to other person you know that is more experience in handling this problem. You can ask help from radio station having a program giving advice to people of their personal problem (probably an attorney) who are very good in deduction and knows what to do. He has the knowledge and expertise to make the decision to be effective. Maybe he can offer something than you cannot do.