Showing posts with label self-esteem. Show all posts
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Saturday, March 18, 2017

SMILE AT YOUR HEART'S CONTENT



Smile has significant relationship for better health. Those people that smile have energetic life. There is seriousness in his smile unless he wanted to pretend hiding what he feels inside.   
     
We smile because it has social purpose of sending message of acceptance, trust and cooperation. 

We smile because it is our way of giving warm welcome and true appreciation.

The man that smiles is easy to deal with. He is approachable and willing to help. He can manage his own problems under the shade of his smile.

We cannot afford to smile if we are in the time of our financial restraint. We can’t afford giving smile to console the pain inside our heart. But for some, they can afford to forget temporarily what they are going through.    
 
A smiling face is part of our personality traits. It is natural and inborn quality contagious even without being told. It is natural reflexes in response to recognition and friendliness. Genuine smile invites friendship. Its value has great importance to the eyes of many people. Anyone can easily trust someone who can smile. Even the most ashen face in history broke his rule and shades a little smile that tickled.

There are many kinds of smiles depending on the way it was expressed. A real smile is sweet and innocent. A false smile is pretentious and sarcastic giving an insulting remark that is hurting under the veil of smile.

Feeling embarrassed begets a smile to hide certain slips and lapses so that the audience can’t easily notice that there is something wrong with his speech or he forgot the line of expression without intention.

Certain lapses are understandable. But sometimes the audience makes fun with the error laughing in their heart’s content adding insult to embarrassment instead of little understanding to the slip. The audience capitalizes the unintentional error something they should not do.

The clown entertained the audience with act that needs laughter. It may be an effective crowd drawer but sometimes it failed.

Being polite to someone makes you smile showing great respect to elders. Sharing little smile even if you don’t want to because of upsetting circumstance in your life is enough to lift your mood by managing your distress to ease the burden in your heart. It’s helping and amazing to the feeling for short period of time. 

We smile of the happy news we received. It fattened our heart knowing once in our lifetime how lucky we are. There are others very sensitive to smile believing it’s insulting to their taste. He didn’t understand the mechanic of smile and the benefit it brings. The uncomfortable feeling is not easy to handle to those that did not understand the worth of smile.

Hardship makes us nervous. It narrowed our perception what to do especially if we are at the edge of our burden. Financial difficulties drive us mad. We can’t afford smile to control our sorrow. The burden is too hard but the effort is less. Smiles helps us think twice and gives us burst of insight as if there is a flow of energy to stay alive.

There are countless reasons why we have to give effort to smile.

A woman can easily win the heart of a man with her smile. Smile relieves stressful moment and lightens the mood. Stress can look us tired, worn-out and lack of interest. But smile gives us a new lease of life.

The leader that smiles to his subordinates can easily win their trust and support of his leadership. He is approachable to hear their problems especially the specific tasks assign to them. He has better relationship with his boss. He can effectively communicate important decision without fear and second thought.

A smiling face during the meetings put the participants at ease and not hesitant to give his views in open forum where exchanges of ideas takes place and necessary. A smiling face put the atmosphere of the gatherings more acceptable and enjoyable. It changes the mood to be relaxing. 

There are many happy faces around enjoying their nights of breads and bottles.

A woman with smile is more attractive and beautiful to the eyes of many people. She can easily catch their attention and win their trust.

Put smile on your gloomy face and you will feel the difference. It seems to lighten the heavy load in your heart and ease little of your worries.

Smile is good to the heart. It increases the good performance of his pumping action. If you smile, it lowers your blood pressure back to normal level.

People that stay positive are prone to smile. Smile is his weapon to remove negative feeling that control him.

Body pain can be remedied by giving a little smile. It was known that it is natural pain killer as it releases endorphin and serotonin responsible for mood change.

The secret of minimizing stress is smile. It induces cortisol, the stress hormone with quick burst of energy to defend the effect of stress.

Laughing burn-out calories has chance to control your weight. It benefits the lungs to be strong. \it boosts the immune system to resist infection as results of cold or flu and be free from the damaging effect of free radicals.

Smile can win many friends. It is easy to communicate with other people and develop better relationship with them. Don’t underestimate a smile. It brings more good than harm. Smile that give comfort to the mind in distress. It is the smile that changes the sour relationship of friendship. It is the smile that tickles the heart and fall in love the first time. It is the smile that lengthens life and add more years to live.


                                 


Thursday, March 3, 2016

FLEXIBLE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR



Is a behavior under two extremes? He can easily adjust to a situation if necessary. He was open to changes. He can fit to an environment he is not familiar. He can associate all kinds of people using the best approach to talk to them or be among them. 

He can communicate perfectly without any hesitation if it demands participation. It is almost perfect as his thought processes was wide and open.

He switched his mode of behavior depending on the kind of line he wanted to fit in. He may compassionate to others if needed. He may be strict in order to bring order in the house. He can find ways to handle a problematic individual to the point of lowering his self-esteem to win his heart.

He was ready to listen and give advice to those that seek his counsel. He was strong-willed person but not manipulative to the weaknesses of others. He was supportive to the cause of anyone if he believed it is the right thing to do. He is not secretive. He can share anyone any negative information that needs correction.  If the information is so delicate to handle, he has ways to lessen the impact of the damaging information to the victim. He expressed his sympathy to those in bereavement and joined their painful hours of mourning.

He showed the proper attitude in the presence of his superiors in the company with respect and high regards. He can get along with his subordinates easily. Being friendly was one asset he was very proud of. With good impression, he can easily win many friends and new friendship. He was not difficult to get along with because of his outstanding flexibility.

He was ready to socialize just to meet and make friends with other people. Adapting to new environment, new faces and new challenges is his strength. Building good relationship was his specialty. He can mix it with many ingredients to last that friendship.

He was good speaker. Many people will listen to him with interest and wonder. No one is perfect in everything. If he makes mistakes, he easily admitted it without any hesitation. He will not insist on hiding his wrong decision just for the sake of protecting his image. But if he did it right, he will appreciate and celebrate with honesty and truthfulness.

He was transparent in making his judgment. He will not favor those persons close to him. He will decide based on the merit of truth even if it means severing a relationship. Whatever the truth it should prevail.

He was unpredictable. No one knows what side of him he will use in different circumstances. It is hard to read his thought processes normally because he can easily shift one behavior to another. He had dark side of him. He was avenging if he is abused and insulted. He will not give you an edge to manipulate him. He was ready to face you in battle without pity and regret. He will not easily give up just for little pressure. He will defend it with his life. He may be good and bad at any given time.

He was very smart. He knew how to read people’s mind. He knew the kind of person he is dealing with. He knew what kind of personality you have once you open your mouth and talk. Your body language will give him the idea who you are. He kew what is a true impression or not. But if you talk to him honestly, he will appreciate your truthfulness. He can easily noticed you if you are lying.

There was goodness in him if you treat him good. He may be lenient at times or very combative in the other. Beware in handling a flexible man. If you can be able to get to know him deeper, you will know that he has many traits worthy to discover. You can learn a lot from him He was willing to support if you ask him because his goodness is more than the bad side of him.