SMILE AT YOUR HEART'S CONTENT

Smile has significant relationship for better health. Those people that smile have energetic life. There is seriousness in his smile unless he wanted to pretend hiding what he feels inside.   

     

We smile because it has social purpose of sending message of acceptance, trust and cooperation. 

We smile because it is our way of giving warm welcome and true appreciation.

The man that smiles is easy to deal with. He is approachable and willing to help. He can manage his own problems under the shade of his smile.

We cannot afford to smile if we are in the time of our financial restraint. We can’t afford giving smile to console the pain inside our heart. But for some, they can afford to forget temporarily what they are going through.    

 

A smiling face is part of our personality traits. It is natural and inborn quality contagious even without being told. It is natural reflexes in response to recognition and friendliness. Genuine smile invites friendship. Its value has great importance to the eyes of many people. Anyone can easily trust someone who can smile. Even the most ashen face in history broke his rule and shades a little smile that tickled.

There are many kinds of smiles depending on the way it was expressed. A real smile is sweet and innocent. A false smile is pretentious and sarcastic giving an insulting remark that is hurting under the veil of smile.

Feeling embarrassed begets a smile to hide certain slips and lapses so that the audience can’t easily notice that there is something wrong with his speech or he forgot the line of expression without intention.

Certain lapses are understandable. But sometimes the audience makes fun with the error laughing in their heart’s content adding insult to embarrassment instead of little understanding to the slip. The audience capitalizes the unintentional error something they should not do.

The clown entertained the audience with act that needs laughter. It may be an effective crowd drawer but sometimes it failed.

Being polite to someone makes you smile showing great respect to elders. Sharing little smile even if you don’t want to because of upsetting circumstance in your life is enough to lift your mood by managing your distress to ease the burden in your heart. It’s helping and amazing to the feeling for short period of time. 

We smile of the happy news we received. It fattened our heart knowing once in our lifetime how lucky we are. There are others very sensitive to smile believing it’s insulting to their taste. He didn’t understand the mechanic of smile and the benefit it brings. The uncomfortable feeling is not easy to handle to those that did not understand the worth of smile.

Hardship makes us nervous. It narrowed our perception what to do especially if we are at the edge of our burden. Financial difficulties drive us mad. We can’t afford smile to control our sorrow. The burden is too hard but the effort is less. Smiles helps us think twice and gives us burst of insight as if there is a flow of energy to stay alive.

There are countless reasons why we have to give effort to smile.

A woman can easily win the heart of a man with her smile. Smile relieves stressful moment and lightens the mood. Stress can look us tired, worn-out and lack of interest. But smile gives us a new lease of life.

The leader that smiles to his subordinates can easily win their trust and support of his leadership. He is approachable to hear their problems especially the specific tasks assign to them. He has better relationship with his boss. He can effectively communicate important decision without fear and second thought.

A smiling face during the meetings put the participants at ease and not hesitant to give his views in open forum where exchanges of ideas takes place and necessary. A smiling face put the atmosphere of the gatherings more acceptable and enjoyable. It changes the mood to be relaxing. 

There are many happy faces around enjoying their nights of breads and bottles.

A woman with smile is more attractive and beautiful to the eyes of many people. She can easily catch their attention and win their trust.

Put smile on your gloomy face and you will feel the difference. It seems to lighten the heavy load in your heart and ease little of your worries.

Smile is good to the heart. It increases the good performance of his pumping action. If you smile, it lowers your blood pressure back to normal level.

People that stay positive are prone to smile. Smile is his weapon to remove negative feeling that control him.

Body pain can be remedied by giving a little smile. It was known that it is natural pain killer as it releases endorphin and serotonin responsible for mood change.

The secret of minimizing stress is smile. It induces cortisol, the stress hormone with quick burst of energy to defend the effect of stress.

Laughing burn-out calories has chance to control your weight. It benefits the lungs to be strong. \it boosts the immune system to resist infection as results of cold or flu and be free from the damaging effect of free radicals.

Smile can win many friends. It is easy to communicate with other people and develop better relationship with them. Don’t underestimate a smile. It brings more good than harm. Smile that give comfort to the mind in distress. It is the smile that changes the sour relationship of friendship. It is the smile that tickles the heart and fall in love the first time. It is the smile that lengthens life and add more years to live.

                                 

SUSPICIOUS-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Dealing with suspicious form of behavior needs time and effort. You need enough time to win his confidence. He always developed fear and doubt of your true intention. He can’t easily give his trust to anyone. He was very meticulous in selecting a friend. They were only be counted in his fingers. Generally, he was not friendly at first. 

As he started to like you, there was still little doubt in his mind if you really worth as a friend. He was very defensive at all times as if there is no goodness in men around him. You have to struggle quite a bit before he will accept you as friend based on his liking. You are lucky if you are one among them.

He was uncomfortable in the presence of a group or in the crowd especially if they are not yet familiar to him or new to his eyes. He can’t easily fit among them. He was more comfortable being alone rather than meeting people.

Even among his friends, he will not initiate conversation to any subject worth discussing to have lively atmosphere. He waited them to make the first move to talk to him. He responded but not much. A lengthy discussion tired him. He was not very responsive most of the time. Sometimes, he voiced out an opinion in response to question but without degree of interest.

In dealing with other people, it seemed there was no life in him. He was dry and unconcern.  He was choosy in making friend. It was the trademark he always maintained. A long-time friend he liked abled to know his personal life because of the deepness of trust developed between them. He was comfortable in talking to him. This was the only time where his interest was high.

He was willing to keep his mouth closed knowing the unpleasant information that will hurt anybody’s feeling. It will remain hidden in his mind.   

He was slower in making important decision. If he decide, it should be sure, consistent and with success. His worry of failure was above his own imaginings. He was very careful in doing something he believed has no chance for success.

He valued friendship and anyone who intends to severe it will never be the same. Once a trust is lost, there’s no way it can be restored. You can no longer convince him to trust you again. Your relationship with him will end. He doesn’t care anymore if you make an effort to make peace with him.

His behavior is hard to understand. His indifference to people was beyond measure. It scared away anybody knowing his limitation. He was contented if he doesn’t have many friends. Being very suspicious prevented him to socialize to improve his self-image.

 His self-esteem was very low. His personality development stagnated. He was not perceptive to change his way of life being alone. He only believed in himself. He doesn’t believe other people’s attention because he always had doubts of their intention. It needs him wider space to think about. 

If you talk to him, you should be very careful what to say. Don’t talk to him regarding other people’s lives. It may only alienate his feeling to you. He may have sympathy with others that you don’t know.

Know his weakness before you hit him. His vulnerability will be your sure points to know him better. It may lead to a long lasting friendship you hope. What you only need is little understanding and patience because what you are facing is a problematic one. Don’t push too hard you may run out of luck because he was smarter than you are.