SUSPICIOUS-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Dealing with suspicious form of behavior needs time and effort. You need enough time to win his confidence. He always developed fear and doubt of your true intention. He can’t easily give his trust to anyone. He was very meticulous in selecting a friend. They were only be counted in his fingers. Generally, he was not friendly at first. 

As he started to like you, there was still little doubt in his mind if you really worth as a friend. He was very defensive at all times as if there is no goodness in men around him. You have to struggle quite a bit before he will accept you as friend based on his liking. You are lucky if you are one among them.

He was uncomfortable in the presence of a group or in the crowd especially if they are not yet familiar to him or new to his eyes. He can’t easily fit among them. He was more comfortable being alone rather than meeting people.

Even among his friends, he will not initiate conversation to any subject worth discussing to have lively atmosphere. He waited them to make the first move to talk to him. He responded but not much. A lengthy discussion tired him. He was not very responsive most of the time. Sometimes, he voiced out an opinion in response to question but without degree of interest.

In dealing with other people, it seemed there was no life in him. He was dry and unconcern.  He was choosy in making friend. It was the trademark he always maintained. A long-time friend he liked abled to know his personal life because of the deepness of trust developed between them. He was comfortable in talking to him. This was the only time where his interest was high.

He was willing to keep his mouth closed knowing the unpleasant information that will hurt anybody’s feeling. It will remain hidden in his mind.   

He was slower in making important decision. If he decide, it should be sure, consistent and with success. His worry of failure was above his own imaginings. He was very careful in doing something he believed has no chance for success.

He valued friendship and anyone who intends to severe it will never be the same. Once a trust is lost, there’s no way it can be restored. You can no longer convince him to trust you again. Your relationship with him will end. He doesn’t care anymore if you make an effort to make peace with him.

His behavior is hard to understand. His indifference to people was beyond measure. It scared away anybody knowing his limitation. He was contented if he doesn’t have many friends. Being very suspicious prevented him to socialize to improve his self-image.

 His self-esteem was very low. His personality development stagnated. He was not perceptive to change his way of life being alone. He only believed in himself. He doesn’t believe other people’s attention because he always had doubts of their intention. It needs him wider space to think about. 

If you talk to him, you should be very careful what to say. Don’t talk to him regarding other people’s lives. It may only alienate his feeling to you. He may have sympathy with others that you don’t know.

Know his weakness before you hit him. His vulnerability will be your sure points to know him better. It may lead to a long lasting friendship you hope. What you only need is little understanding and patience because what you are facing is a problematic one. Don’t push too hard you may run out of luck because he was smarter than you are.