DESTRUCTIVE-TYPE OF BEAVIOR

There are people that have no reservation in talking or commenting what’s in their mind even if it is destructive to one’s own feeling. Once he opened his mouth, it causes trouble. He doesn’t hesitate to say what he had seen, what things he don’t like. Without respecting the privacy of others, many of them expresses their distaste and easily irritated of minding other personal affairs.

Being talkative, he captured the attention of those in a group. He was good actor giving opinion as if he knew everything. He easily criticized any action, a sour in his eyes and a pain in his ears. He had lesser friends but many enemies. He doesn’t care if it severed a relationship. What is important to him is that what he has to say to something even it hurts somebody’s feeling.

He had his positive side. He can get the attention of others because he knew how to win their trust. He spoke humorous punch line, witty jokes. He talked something that do not make sense just to seek their attention and entertain them.

He had active and lively happy life. He was friendly or outspoken. But other people found him irritable and some found him very accommodating. He knew how to place himself among them even if he knew them only briefly. He can manage new friendship with confidence clipping his shyness and talked to them without fear. The people around enjoyed his company of being good conversationalist. But beware, if he don’t like, he felt irritated and angry. That is not the best part of his character. He can easily loss a friend and destroy the lively atmosphere.

He had creative imagination. He can easily formulate something of importance, give comfort for their advantage. His view is a manner of interest, clear and understandable to comprehend. His creativeness put him to explore new things of value. His inventive attitude can easily find fresh ideas most useful to everyone.

If given a new task, he kept his interest alive. His innovation makes other people impressed of his ideas and applications. The way he handled the feelings of others was inconclusive. Sometimes he was willing to listen, sometimes he showed his destructive nature and unwarranted criticism. He easily noticed flaws of others but has no idea to know his own flaws. He will not push the issue if caught between the lines.

He showed impulsiveness in his behavior.  He had his weakness when it comes to decision making. He was weak and careless. He made impulsive decision that are irrational without bearing to the solution of the problem especially if he was pressured and don’t know what to do. His creativeness and imagination only confined to isolated cases. But his greatest lapses were how to make right decision. He liked a worry-free situation, less effort activity. He panicked if it gives him stress of his inability to handle them.

He was very interested in doing new things but later on his interest waned. Instead of striving for the best, he settled the less because of his loss of interest.

He was fond of doing silly things without purpose, without good intention to make a scene and to entertain. There has no rationalism in such wasted act that has no purpose at all. He was careless by making immediate conclusion without knowing first the true fact, an irresponsible action that most often irritate people. He made generalization of his comments with no excuses or exceptions to those that are good and different because of his failure to know the details first before talking too much. By not paying attention to details, may end in lapses of behavior.

He loved to be acknowledged and recognized his strength and his helpful contribution. He was egoistic, loving himself more. He was not protective or doesn’t care in handling the sensitivity of other people. He violated their ego, but if his ego is touched severely, it pained him deeply. He was too emotional, touchy with erratic mood that controls his good sanity.