SUPPORTIVE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Every man has its own kind of behavior as he grow. It can evolve into something different due to influence he got from outside environment, from his peer groups and the modern way of living that forced him to adapt to changing times. The behavior may be good or bad depending on the degree of its effect to the individual how he nourish it to become one. If the influence is quite bad then he becomes a menace to the society and a threat to peaceful community. 

A delinquent child will continue to be problematic if he insisted in changing his direction. It is always the responsibility of the parents to mold their children into a good citizen full of good moral values.

A supportive type of behavior has its own unique quality, his strength and weakness. He was people-oriented due to his ability to give encouragement for the helpless, care about their difficulties and willing to give support to those in need. No need for him to be asked, he will do it because it was his nature. If they got problem, he is willing to listen, give advice and embrace them with comforting hug.

He always developed good relationship with those around him. He doesn’t want to enter into disagreement with anyone. He will do his best that such relationship is strong and has solid structure. He pleased those that need his counsel and not to fail them. He kept his silence to notice individual lapses.

  

Even if he was not in the mood, he will join with the tide interacting conversation to anybody or in a group discussing something of importance or has no importance at all. His responsiveness to people’s needs put them to liked him.

He supported people’s initiated activities. He participated when asked even if it does not interest him. He consented to join them but disinterested.

If he has emotional distress with other people, he suppressed the feeling before it worsens and kept his frustration under control. If he is angry, he just kept it to himself and always maintains a non-combative posture.

He was a follower. He was cooperative whatever function id assigned to him by his superior. He worked as long as he is supervised. He will obey without question what is required of him. If there is a necessity for him to serve, he is willing to do so. It was his desire to respond to the needs of other people even against his will.

It was his nature to give encouragement to those that have low self-esteem even if he knew he was also one of them too. He protected other people’s lapses and weakness. If it is necessary to see to protect their interest from unpleasant and damaging information, he will gladly make it so.

As a follower, he was not good in planning and decision-making for the benefit of the company or any other instances. He lacked the initiative to improve himself and makes his own image. He was only good in following orders. He took action for the execution of instruction under the leadership of his superior.

 It is hard to determine what’s in his mind. His though process was vague and unfathomable. His outside appearance does not speak truly what’s in his heart. He always consent and willing. It was his desire to please everybody and make them happy. He has no backbone of his own. He relied other people’s initiative and leadership.

Self-improvement may be slow for him because of his dependency with others. He supported others need but failed to support himself to be a better person.

AGGRESSIVE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

There were people that are weak and easily give up if they are burdened with a problem they can’t handle. They were helpless to face the storm. Their fear put them in a difficult position to find relief of their helplessness. 

An aggressive type of behavior has different story. Failure is his challenge. Success was his greatest achievement. He was proud of his accomplishments. Aggressiveness was the focal point of his behavior. He pushed his desire above his limit. He always think big. Doubts did not deter him to do what is necessary. His strength was unlimited. His perception was quite wide. His determination was without question. He was willing to sacrifice everything for one purpose – success.

He worked harder to attain his objective. He don’t mind extending many hours to work sacrificing his time of rest. His desire kept burning. The fire to get success was high in his mind.

The intensity of his desire revitalized his energy. It kept him strong chasing his lucky day. He had total control of his action. If he fail, the more he is determine to try the second time. Challenge is where his heart is.

Once established in one position of his career, he was pursuing the next step of his career. His ambition did not stop. He wanted to get the higher level with greater force of intention. It bored him to remain in one position. He desired to upgrade himself to a more challenging role.

He will dominate the atmosphere in any conversation. As he spoke, they became attentive and had interest in hearing his voice. He can easily attract attention with the voice that command authority. The words he spoken touched their heart as if they were mesmerize by the wighty substance of his words and the voice clearly audible to one’s ear.

He can easily got along with other people. He had that power to adapt to new environment and be known. Being lively can get him many friends around. He used his expertise in winning people’s emotion and feelings. He gives inspiration to go along with anyone, making new friendship is the nicest thing to do.

He was very independent in any given situation. He did not rely on anyone’s assistance. He supported himself and lived with his own. His strength made it possible for him to work alone in longer period of time to be able to meet his deadline. His determination ruled his life. To get the success he desired put his mind occupied and push beyond his limit.

He acted fast in making decision with greater accuracy. If he decide, he will not wait too long to act. It was his belief that it can be done. If he failed, he looked for a second chance. He won’t give up. The more he is very determined to make it possible.

What he was lacking is that he doesn’t have enough patience. Sometimes he acted suicidal in his decision. His carelessness put him in a difficult situation to make an extra effort to correct the mistakes. Patience made him bored without any idea that patience can save his life, work and his dream. Patience give him opportunity to correct whatever minr slip he did in his decision making.

With aggressive behavior, there were employees under his supervision were not happy working with him. He was forceful in meeting deadlines. He wanted result in short period of time. He expect better quality of their work. It became a stressful environment for employees to do their work fast without letting little space for themselves. There was too much pressure in the working environment.

He did not give time for others to speak regarding issues and concerns affecting the business operation. He wanted to lead and speak for themselves. He did the talking, they were following whatever he said. He imposed leadership as if he is the only one who knows everything. He showed too much ego sometimes. His self-esteem was higher and more concrete. He craved for recognition from his ability to excel. He wanted to be praised of his accomplishment. He wanted to be recognized of being aggressive and do things his own way.

PRODUCTIVE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

This is a type of personality fit in business. He was very resourceful to attain his objective. He planned and executed decision to meet with the desired result. He gathered all necessary and useful information to guide him to make a decision. It becomes the basis of his planning on how his action should be and when to start his activities. In some instances, the delay of its implementation may be reasonable if there is some lapses seen along the way that should be attended to. 

He was very careful in his action. As much as possible he wanted success not failure. He spent much time in his planning stage looking all the angles that may affect his decision and implementation. He was meticulous in his every movement weighing all the pros and cons to ensure that everything is in order before he will proceed.

In hiring people, he sees to it that the applicant to the job has to pass many oral and written tests to gauge his knowledge and its potential to fit to the vacancy. He will not hire people because of connection or closeness in the past. He must pass according to protocol of hiring where good ability, hidden talent is a must. He doesn’t want to place his business in the hands of those whose integrity and knowledge will not meet the standard set in. He wanted to have employees he can rely on during his absence.

He was not good in trusting people. He immediately cast doubts of their honesty and ability to carry-out a sensitive post. He only placed his trust to a very experience employee he had known many years had passed and had long record of accomplishments. He doesn’t want to take chances for failure. A new employee has to show his talent to be known to be able to gain trust from his superior.

Sometimes, he acted too judgmental to decide into a conclusion at first glance without giving a chance for a man to show his worth. He believed he knows everything but honestly he is not. His belief was high to the point of misjudgment. Talents cannot be known the way he look, move and act. He should be tried to physically test his knowledge to be able to arrive to correct conclusion.

He was task-oriented. If he gives a task to an employee, he should be able to meet the deadline without delay. The quality of his work should be above par. Excellence is a must. There is no room for errors. Perfection is the Bible.

He was productive. He was expecting high level of production. The survival of the company is ensured if high profitability is reach and the rate of investment is satisfactory. He strive to hit above mark because this was where the profit is assured.

He showed calmness in the period of company’s distress. If there is problem affecting company’s operation, his mind is clear to look for a solution. Panic will only worsen the situation especially if the mind is being shrouded with emotional burden. Being too emotional will cause weakness in mind and spirit. He becomes slow in dispatching his decision and the necessary action to remove the threat.

He was very organized in carrying out the task systematically. It gives him comfort because he always knew the drill. He can immediately detect any sign of failure and took immediate action. He was always strive to produce an excellent result.

He was not people-oriented. His relationship with other people was very low. He doesn’t mind making many friends around. He wanted to isolate himself from others. He was comfortable to be alone and absorbed himself to his work. His entire life was spent to his work with little time of spending his weekend for mental rest. 

He wanted to work alone and not very keen in working with the group. He had doubts of their competency for the success of an endeavor. He was not communicative. He acted distant in his relationship with others. He has no interest talking to topics not related to his work. He felt it boring and time-consuming.

He was goal-oriented. His mind was always wandering how he can reach his goal. He will not rest until he can hit the mark. He wanted to finish what he started to the end. He doesn’t want to keep the job hanging. He found it relaxing knowing that his goal has been completed with desired result.

SUSPICIOUS-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Dealing with suspicious form of behavior needs time and effort. You need enough time to win his confidence. He always developed fear and doubt of your true intention. He can’t easily give his trust to anyone. He was very meticulous in selecting a friend. They were only be counted in his fingers. Generally, he was not friendly at first. 

As he started to like you, there was still little doubt in his mind if you really worth as a friend. He was very defensive at all times as if there is no goodness in men around him. You have to struggle quite a bit before he will accept you as friend based on his liking. You are lucky if you are one among them.

He was uncomfortable in the presence of a group or in the crowd especially if they are not yet familiar to him or new to his eyes. He can’t easily fit among them. He was more comfortable being alone rather than meeting people.

Even among his friends, he will not initiate conversation to any subject worth discussing to have lively atmosphere. He waited them to make the first move to talk to him. He responded but not much. A lengthy discussion tired him. He was not very responsive most of the time. Sometimes, he voiced out an opinion in response to question but without degree of interest.

In dealing with other people, it seemed there was no life in him. He was dry and unconcern.  He was choosy in making friend. It was the trademark he always maintained. A long-time friend he liked abled to know his personal life because of the deepness of trust developed between them. He was comfortable in talking to him. This was the only time where his interest was high.

He was willing to keep his mouth closed knowing the unpleasant information that will hurt anybody’s feeling. It will remain hidden in his mind.   

He was slower in making important decision. If he decide, it should be sure, consistent and with success. His worry of failure was above his own imaginings. He was very careful in doing something he believed has no chance for success.

He valued friendship and anyone who intends to severe it will never be the same. Once a trust is lost, there’s no way it can be restored. You can no longer convince him to trust you again. Your relationship with him will end. He doesn’t care anymore if you make an effort to make peace with him.

His behavior is hard to understand. His indifference to people was beyond measure. It scared away anybody knowing his limitation. He was contented if he doesn’t have many friends. Being very suspicious prevented him to socialize to improve his self-image.

 His self-esteem was very low. His personality development stagnated. He was not perceptive to change his way of life being alone. He only believed in himself. He doesn’t believe other people’s attention because he always had doubts of their intention. It needs him wider space to think about. 

If you talk to him, you should be very careful what to say. Don’t talk to him regarding other people’s lives. It may only alienate his feeling to you. He may have sympathy with others that you don’t know.

Know his weakness before you hit him. His vulnerability will be your sure points to know him better. It may lead to a long lasting friendship you hope. What you only need is little understanding and patience because what you are facing is a problematic one. Don’t push too hard you may run out of luck because he was smarter than you are.

FLEXIBLE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Is a behavior under two extremes? He can easily adjust to a situation if necessary. He was open to changes. He can fit to an environment he is not familiar. He can associate all kinds of people using the best approach to talk to them or be among them. 

He can communicate perfectly without any hesitation if it demands participation. It is almost perfect as his thought processes was wide and open.

He switched his mode of behavior depending on the kind of line he wanted to fit in. He may compassionate to others if needed. He may be strict in order to bring order in the house. He can find ways to handle a problematic individual to the point of lowering his self-esteem to win his heart.

He was ready to listen and give advice to those that seek his counsel. He was strong-willed person but not manipulative to the weaknesses of others. He was supportive to the cause of anyone if he believed it is the right thing to do. He is not secretive. He can share anyone any negative information that needs correction.  If the information is so delicate to handle, he has ways to lessen the impact of the damaging information to the victim. He expressed his sympathy to those in bereavement and joined their painful hours of mourning.

He showed the proper attitude in the presence of his superiors in the company with respect and high regards. He can get along with his subordinates easily. Being friendly was one asset he was very proud of. With good impression, he can easily win many friends and new friendship. He was not difficult to get along with because of his outstanding flexibility.

He was ready to socialize just to meet and make friends with other people. Adapting to new environment, new faces and new challenges is his strength. Building good relationship was his specialty. He can mix it with many ingredients to last that friendship.

He was good speaker. Many people will listen to him with interest and wonder. No one is perfect in everything. If he makes mistakes, he easily admitted it without any hesitation. He will not insist on hiding his wrong decision just for the sake of protecting his image. But if he did it right, he will appreciate and celebrate with honesty and truthfulness.

He was transparent in making his judgment. He will not favor those persons close to him. He will decide based on the merit of truth even if it means severing a relationship. Whatever the truth it should prevail.

He was unpredictable. No one knows what side of him he will use in different circumstances. It is hard to read his thought processes normally because he can easily shift one behavior to another. He had dark side of him. He was avenging if he is abused and insulted. He will not give you an edge to manipulate him. He was ready to face you in battle without pity and regret. He will not easily give up just for little pressure. He will defend it with his life. He may be good and bad at any given time.

He was very smart. He knew how to read people’s mind. He knew the kind of person he is dealing with. He knew what kind of personality you have once you open your mouth and talk. Your body language will give him the idea who you are. He kew what is a true impression or not. But if you talk to him honestly, he will appreciate your truthfulness. He can easily noticed you if you are lying.

There was goodness in him if you treat him good. He may be lenient at times or very combative in the other. Beware in handling a flexible man. If you can be able to get to know him deeper, you will know that he has many traits worthy to discover. You can learn a lot from him He was willing to support if you ask him because his goodness is more than the bad side of him.