SUSPICIOUS-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Dealing with suspicious form of behavior needs time and effort. You need enough time to win his confidence. He always developed fear and doubt of your true intention. He can’t easily give his trust to anyone. He was very meticulous in selecting a friend. They were only be counted in his fingers. Generally, he was not friendly at first. 

As he started to like you, there was still little doubt in his mind if you really worth as a friend. He was very defensive at all times as if there is no goodness in men around him. You have to struggle quite a bit before he will accept you as friend based on his liking. You are lucky if you are one among them.

He was uncomfortable in the presence of a group or in the crowd especially if they are not yet familiar to him or new to his eyes. He can’t easily fit among them. He was more comfortable being alone rather than meeting people.

Even among his friends, he will not initiate conversation to any subject worth discussing to have lively atmosphere. He waited them to make the first move to talk to him. He responded but not much. A lengthy discussion tired him. He was not very responsive most of the time. Sometimes, he voiced out an opinion in response to question but without degree of interest.

In dealing with other people, it seemed there was no life in him. He was dry and unconcern.  He was choosy in making friend. It was the trademark he always maintained. A long-time friend he liked abled to know his personal life because of the deepness of trust developed between them. He was comfortable in talking to him. This was the only time where his interest was high.

He was willing to keep his mouth closed knowing the unpleasant information that will hurt anybody’s feeling. It will remain hidden in his mind.   

He was slower in making important decision. If he decide, it should be sure, consistent and with success. His worry of failure was above his own imaginings. He was very careful in doing something he believed has no chance for success.

He valued friendship and anyone who intends to severe it will never be the same. Once a trust is lost, there’s no way it can be restored. You can no longer convince him to trust you again. Your relationship with him will end. He doesn’t care anymore if you make an effort to make peace with him.

His behavior is hard to understand. His indifference to people was beyond measure. It scared away anybody knowing his limitation. He was contented if he doesn’t have many friends. Being very suspicious prevented him to socialize to improve his self-image.

 His self-esteem was very low. His personality development stagnated. He was not perceptive to change his way of life being alone. He only believed in himself. He doesn’t believe other people’s attention because he always had doubts of their intention. It needs him wider space to think about. 

If you talk to him, you should be very careful what to say. Don’t talk to him regarding other people’s lives. It may only alienate his feeling to you. He may have sympathy with others that you don’t know.

Know his weakness before you hit him. His vulnerability will be your sure points to know him better. It may lead to a long lasting friendship you hope. What you only need is little understanding and patience because what you are facing is a problematic one. Don’t push too hard you may run out of luck because he was smarter than you are.

FLEXIBLE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Is a behavior under two extremes? He can easily adjust to a situation if necessary. He was open to changes. He can fit to an environment he is not familiar. He can associate all kinds of people using the best approach to talk to them or be among them. 

He can communicate perfectly without any hesitation if it demands participation. It is almost perfect as his thought processes was wide and open.

He switched his mode of behavior depending on the kind of line he wanted to fit in. He may compassionate to others if needed. He may be strict in order to bring order in the house. He can find ways to handle a problematic individual to the point of lowering his self-esteem to win his heart.

He was ready to listen and give advice to those that seek his counsel. He was strong-willed person but not manipulative to the weaknesses of others. He was supportive to the cause of anyone if he believed it is the right thing to do. He is not secretive. He can share anyone any negative information that needs correction.  If the information is so delicate to handle, he has ways to lessen the impact of the damaging information to the victim. He expressed his sympathy to those in bereavement and joined their painful hours of mourning.

He showed the proper attitude in the presence of his superiors in the company with respect and high regards. He can get along with his subordinates easily. Being friendly was one asset he was very proud of. With good impression, he can easily win many friends and new friendship. He was not difficult to get along with because of his outstanding flexibility.

He was ready to socialize just to meet and make friends with other people. Adapting to new environment, new faces and new challenges is his strength. Building good relationship was his specialty. He can mix it with many ingredients to last that friendship.

He was good speaker. Many people will listen to him with interest and wonder. No one is perfect in everything. If he makes mistakes, he easily admitted it without any hesitation. He will not insist on hiding his wrong decision just for the sake of protecting his image. But if he did it right, he will appreciate and celebrate with honesty and truthfulness.

He was transparent in making his judgment. He will not favor those persons close to him. He will decide based on the merit of truth even if it means severing a relationship. Whatever the truth it should prevail.

He was unpredictable. No one knows what side of him he will use in different circumstances. It is hard to read his thought processes normally because he can easily shift one behavior to another. He had dark side of him. He was avenging if he is abused and insulted. He will not give you an edge to manipulate him. He was ready to face you in battle without pity and regret. He will not easily give up just for little pressure. He will defend it with his life. He may be good and bad at any given time.

He was very smart. He knew how to read people’s mind. He knew the kind of person he is dealing with. He knew what kind of personality you have once you open your mouth and talk. Your body language will give him the idea who you are. He kew what is a true impression or not. But if you talk to him honestly, he will appreciate your truthfulness. He can easily noticed you if you are lying.

There was goodness in him if you treat him good. He may be lenient at times or very combative in the other. Beware in handling a flexible man. If you can be able to get to know him deeper, you will know that he has many traits worthy to discover. You can learn a lot from him He was willing to support if you ask him because his goodness is more than the bad side of him.

EXPRESSIVE-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

Another kind of behavior is worth knowing. He was friendly but in disguise. You can’t be sure of his true feeling to you. He was showy but it is not a guarantee of a true friendship. He doesn’t care if such friendship is known to anybody or to most people. It is not of his interest.

Whatever he did, whatever his relationship with other people, whatever success in store for him, he wanted to be known by everybody even in public. His expressive attitude put him in the limelight. He becomes the star in the crowd. He controlled the environment as if he is only a man of extra-ordinary abilities among the crowd. He valued his relationship with other people if he thinks he can use it at his advantage.

His ability to win people’s belief made him popular. He valued other people’s view as well as his faith of his ability. This aspect of his life was the result of the hidden strength it had in himself.

He becomes a crowd drawer as he started to talk, many will listen to him attentively and with interest. He put humor to his speech to remove the boredom most listeners do. There was no need for him to pretend. It was his natural way of dealing people. Laughing was the language of the heart. If you have these, it may lengthen your life. An expressive attitude has full of these. He was lively and humorous to talk to people in any given circumstances and they liked him. If he was in the presence of them, the atmosphere was more interesting and enjoyable.

He listened to other people’s mind. He was willing to give his views and opinion for the satisfaction of everybody. At the same time, he respected opinion of others he found to have of value. He was ready to fight what he think is right. He did not care if he entered into disagreement with other people. If he thinks it is the right thing to do, he will protect and defend on it.

Whatever his strengths were his weaknesses also. If he is under stress for whatever reasons he can’t function well. He easily discouraged if he us under heavy stress. He can’t perform effectively. He was not a born leader. He was born follower. He worked well under strict supervision from someone on top. 

But if there is heavy pressure in his job function, something goes wrong along the lines. There were lapses in his performance. He was easily confused in the complex details of his work. It seemed he was slow learner to absorb specific instruction given to him especially if he has no idea how to do it. But if he knew very well, it gives him comfort and more effective in performing his duties.

He had low self-esteem. It needed to drive him hard before it can flicker his interest. If his self-esteem is high, he can do the job without or with little supervision. He had lack of courage to pursue if it gives him difficulties.

He needed someone to boost his morale. That was the reason why he was effective if he work in a group rather than working alone. He was more relax and confident that if something goes wrong at least the burden is not on himself alone. The group can give their support if he needed to something he can’t handle alone. Once in a group, the atmosphere was different compared to work singly. They can talk sensibly, jokingly and laughing together. This is the moment of interaction that later on will develop into a long lasting friendship.

DESTRUCTIVE-TYPE OF BEAVIOR

There are people that have no reservation in talking or commenting what’s in their mind even if it is destructive to one’s own feeling. Once he opened his mouth, it causes trouble. He doesn’t hesitate to say what he had seen, what things he don’t like. Without respecting the privacy of others, many of them expresses their distaste and easily irritated of minding other personal affairs.

Being talkative, he captured the attention of those in a group. He was good actor giving opinion as if he knew everything. He easily criticized any action, a sour in his eyes and a pain in his ears. He had lesser friends but many enemies. He doesn’t care if it severed a relationship. What is important to him is that what he has to say to something even it hurts somebody’s feeling.

He had his positive side. He can get the attention of others because he knew how to win their trust. He spoke humorous punch line, witty jokes. He talked something that do not make sense just to seek their attention and entertain them.

He had active and lively happy life. He was friendly or outspoken. But other people found him irritable and some found him very accommodating. He knew how to place himself among them even if he knew them only briefly. He can manage new friendship with confidence clipping his shyness and talked to them without fear. The people around enjoyed his company of being good conversationalist. But beware, if he don’t like, he felt irritated and angry. That is not the best part of his character. He can easily loss a friend and destroy the lively atmosphere.

He had creative imagination. He can easily formulate something of importance, give comfort for their advantage. His view is a manner of interest, clear and understandable to comprehend. His creativeness put him to explore new things of value. His inventive attitude can easily find fresh ideas most useful to everyone.

If given a new task, he kept his interest alive. His innovation makes other people impressed of his ideas and applications. The way he handled the feelings of others was inconclusive. Sometimes he was willing to listen, sometimes he showed his destructive nature and unwarranted criticism. He easily noticed flaws of others but has no idea to know his own flaws. He will not push the issue if caught between the lines.

He showed impulsiveness in his behavior.  He had his weakness when it comes to decision making. He was weak and careless. He made impulsive decision that are irrational without bearing to the solution of the problem especially if he was pressured and don’t know what to do. His creativeness and imagination only confined to isolated cases. But his greatest lapses were how to make right decision. He liked a worry-free situation, less effort activity. He panicked if it gives him stress of his inability to handle them.

He was very interested in doing new things but later on his interest waned. Instead of striving for the best, he settled the less because of his loss of interest.

He was fond of doing silly things without purpose, without good intention to make a scene and to entertain. There has no rationalism in such wasted act that has no purpose at all. He was careless by making immediate conclusion without knowing first the true fact, an irresponsible action that most often irritate people. He made generalization of his comments with no excuses or exceptions to those that are good and different because of his failure to know the details first before talking too much. By not paying attention to details, may end in lapses of behavior.

He loved to be acknowledged and recognized his strength and his helpful contribution. He was egoistic, loving himself more. He was not protective or doesn’t care in handling the sensitivity of other people. He violated their ego, but if his ego is touched severely, it pained him deeply. He was too emotional, touchy with erratic mood that controls his good sanity.

CONFIDENT-TYPE OF BEHAVIOR

A confident man is not afraid to take responsibility even how hard it was because of inner strength he developed to be able to face the challenge. He was the kind of people that is strong-willed, efficient and hardworking. There was always risk in making decision. There is decision that ends in failure because no one knows what will happen ahead. But it did not deter him to make decision he believed the right one and willing to do more if necessary for the benefit of one or the many. 

He was not easily discouraged of failure, the more he work hard in his belief that everything will be put into the right place. A father made almost all decision at home even the tiniest details of family life including the critical decision that warrants his attention. The foundation of his life was about decision-making. This was the only way for him to survive.

He has business-like quality. He can run the business with ease and confident. He knows which direction his business should be and how he can improve it to be profitable. Whatever task is given him, he always sees that it is done right, properly, completely and on time. He will not let certain job left hanging. It is not his kind. He was always responsible in his function. If it takes a certain task many hours to comply, he will do so without any regret. It was his nature to finish the job even how hard it will be.

If he is around friends, he has fresh ideas to share with them especially if they have specific activity to pursue. He maintained good relationship to anyone. He was not sensitive of his feeling. He listened and understood. Any constructive criticism is a challenge to him to improve his work. If someone crosses his path with misunderstanding not of his own making, he avoided confrontation. He will not add fire to the situation. He always hope that disagreement is settled in proper and civilized way.

He was not panicky if there is problem along the line. He remained calm with highest level of confidence and hopeful he can find ways to manage any hindrances and put a stop to the effect it cause in working environment. He has highest points of performance, doing it right, fast and on schedule. He doesn’t want to waste time because of inefficiency. Performance below the level of acceptance is costly. Spending time and effort is worthless without positive result.

The calmness of his behavior towards treating a new task assigned to him, give him too much confidence that he can handle it well and striving that it can be done right, fast and on time. He was confident that he can make rational and wise decision if problem arises in handling the new task. He was striving for excellence giving no room for failure. His innovative ideas made his job easier to handle.

He was born leader. If given the chance to lead a group of people, he can lead them even during crucial moment of their lives. He did not feel afraid of responsibility instead it challenge him to make the best of it. He was true to himself without pretending to be good. Even during the time of his difficulties, he will not seek help from other people. He just kept it to himself because of his belief and great confidence that he can find ways to brace the impact of his burden.

He give more time in the performance of his work, gathering many new ideas important in his planning and decision-making if the need arises rather than putting more time with his family. 

If it happens that you are under him, you have to focus your attention to your work as he always expects result and hard work. He was very strict about task deadline. If overtime is necessary to submit the report on schedule you have to do it fast. You have to follow and toe the line. You are always reminded to obey whatever he asked you to do especially the necessity of completing your work to be able catch up the deadline.